9 Places A Woman Loves And Needs To Be Touched To Make Her Sigh In Pleasure

Physical intimacy is, was, and always will be one of the things that humans continue to explore. There is not much else that can give pleasure to a human so viscerally but even now many of us remain a little lost about what works for us.

Men are ambitious when it comes to making us moan in pleasure but are sometimes clueless about what would make us curl our toes. Remember that epic scene from Friends in which Monica is explaining to Chandler how to make his girlfriend happy in bed?

Turns out, there are more than just seven erogenous zones in your body, a lot of which stay neglected. Sheryl Kingsberg, Ph.D., a clinical psychologist told HealthyWoman, “Women and men have a fairly narrow view of what parts of their body are tied to arousal and sensual pleasure.”

We know that the clitoris, vagina, and nipples are highly sensitive and pleasurable parts and hardly ever venture out of those areas but it is time to try new things. Show this list to your partner or use it yourself because even you will be surprised by some of the erogenous zones in your body.

1. Hands

We do almost everything with our hands but it is time to look at them with a new light because they are an extremely sensual part of your body. Gently sucking fingers is like oral stimulation, says Shannon Chavez, a psychologist and certified sex therapist in Los Angeles. “If a partner sucks on a finger and massages it with the tongue, it sends the signal to the reward center of the brain similar to sex,” she told Glamour.com. Ask your partner to kiss the finger pads and use their tongue to draw circles around.

2. Bottoms of your feet

Your feet have pressure points and nerve endings that can arouse you. As some people are ticklish in the feet you’ll have to put pressure and go for steady strokes. Now you know why a feet massage can give so much pleasure.

3. Armpits

Surprising, yes. Maybe, a little icky for some people too. But let that go and explore the seductive part of this zone of your body. Relationship expert Cory Beth Honickman says that armpits are super sensitive because of which they are ticklish too. What you need to do is ask your partner to gently brush the area with a brisk circular motion while paying attention to what gets the best sensation. “The sensation of being tickled teeters on the brink of sexually thrilling,” says Honickman.

4. Stomach

The area between the belly button and pelvis can be very pleasure-inducing and yet it remains lesser-known. With the right touch, the G-spot can get stimulated from the opposite side.

“The lower stomach is so dangerously close to the vagina and clitoris that the thought of moving farther south is also particularly exciting for many women,” Tristan Weedmark, We-Vibe’s resident expert on the subject, says. “Light stimulation promotes blood flow to other erogenous zones.”

5. Ears

This tiny part of your body has a lot of nerve endings and is sensitive to touch which is probably why it can be seductive when touched correctly. Ask your partner to lightly touch the C-shaped outline of your ear with their fingers, some gentle kissing and nibbling can also light your fire. When penetration and this is coupled together, it can also intensify the climax.

6. Inner thighs

The inside of your thighs is potentially a pleasure-inducing part since the skin there is very sensitive. Some people can be ticklish but the reaction from your partner’s nibbles, nips, and licks will be that much intense. If you’re ready to make it more playful, try an ice cube to trace up and down the inner thighs.

7. Pubic mound

The lady bits, but not there entirely. The pubic bone can be a stimulating spot since it is connected to your “genitals and sexual response thanks to sensitive nerve endings and glands that emit pheromones [chemicals your body produces that can trigger a sexual response from others], natural body scent, and sweat,” says Chavez.

8. Nape of your neck

Now, this one is fairly known but if your partner doesn’t use it to his advantage, shame on him. The nape and back of the neck again have a lot of nerve endings and even a light touch can make you go wild. If your partner uses their fingers and mouth up and down the area it can build up the mood really fast.

9. Brain

For a woman, the brain is the most important erogenous zone. If we’re not in the mood because of stress, exhaustion, or anything else it can block the pleasure for the rest of the body. Turn us on emotionally and mentally first, and watch how the show gets going.